I'm so happy I'm not the other guy...

Women are so stupid, no offense to the smart women out there. However, What do you do when Ms. Independent is stuck on stupid over Mr. Wrong for any occassion??? All I can do is listen laugh and laugh some more. Stop playing games with men who are beneath you let water seek its own level. Don't bring men into your life who is only good for a giggle cause guess what the laughter comes to an end. As Rabbi tuck (yes thats a pen name not his real name) used to tell me if a relationship should be based on anything let it be sex. Cause at least a good drilling will make things worth the aggrevation.


What advice would you give someone who is stuck in a bad situation to the point where they lose themselves????

Tequila on Ice a new beginning

Darryl Worley sang it best I am looking for a saint who is a devil of a lover. Well I mean not to sound pompous but I'm 24, No kids, got a Bachelor's in business, goin for my MBA in marketing and Psychology and my MFS. I own a home and a car and I am building my career with a Globally recognized insurer. I'm single why? Cause I work too much? Doubtful. I guess something I am unconciously letting off is repelling the good women for me or it just isn't time. ButI am looking forward to what the dawn may bring with it.

Close Attention

When someone you love is going through a hypomania situation, or upcycle, or whatever term they use for it. Be smart and be supportive. For those who want to know that hypomania looks like... there will be a conversation where several thoughts collide at once. The need(yes need not want or desire) for sex (best part) increases (remember if they don't get it from you they will get it somewhere, anywhere and it will put you and them at risk...) For those who have lovers that crash remember don't act like nothing is wrong but change the scenery change the pace. that will get them to open up, depression is a killer it sometimes follows an upcycle though some can avoid it. Also note if your significant other seems to be spending more or working more or both, slow them down. Let them take small breaks often take them lunch or snacks. Look for things like bitten nails, mildly compulsive behavior turn on music it helps. If you are the jealous type leave them now. Jealousy makes the disorder a million times worse.


Question of the day...

What would you do if you knew you were the only thing keeping your lover grounded???

Change is tough

Change is good but it is tough. I understand the source of my constant uncomfortability the changes necessary are very tough. Many mistakes have to be answered for many things must be completed before can fully shake off all the burden that weighs on me. However I truly feel suspended right now. Stuck in that inbetween place between who I want to be and who I was. The pain of change runs deep, as carrie underwood once sung "it starts with goodbye." Well I now eagerly await this numbness to fade away.

Surrender

As the new day approaches. I have found the answer to a question that has bothered me for a few weeks now. I have been trying to walk a line that I should never have. I must say Bill Cosby is right, "I may not know the secret to success but I know a guaranteed way to fail is to try to please everyone." Now I everyone off the ride is over. J officially surrender's to what I always feared was my darker self. This past weekend alot was resolved fixed. I've been freed of everything that was once holding my back. I was hoping to celebrate it all...


Question bonus....
when can the rain clear and leave more unhappiness than the snow????

St. Patricks Day

Wow another St. Patty's day has come on us. No drinking for me though I got too much work to do and not enough leverage to do it in. I give myself one more week then I will allow myself to go off into broker mode. No holding back at all.


Question of the day....

How long does one wait before they show all their cards to someone they want to be with.

Saturday

First road trip here we go...

I'm goin to visit my mother. I'm nervous but it'll have to do for now.


Question of the day....

Well we know what happens when a woman's fed up. what about when a guy's fed up???